love measurement
if you don’t know how to measure love, you will never know who loves you and don’t. some say love cannot be measured yet we all know that, what cannot be measured cannot be explained. let me be the first to measure.
love is when i have 1 bottle of coca cola drink yet i am thirsty and i chose to give you to drink alone but the fact that you already know i am thirsty too, you also chose not to drink alone and prefer drinking together from the same bottle.
( principle of sharing)
love is when i am in the middle of danger then i tell you to escape so that i deal with my danger alone but you prefer to be part of my fight even though i wanted your safety and your peace
( sharing problems)
love is when i give you all of my small income whilst not comparing me to a rich man who offers 10 % of his total income to her partner even when it’s higher than my total income. i sacrifice but he affords, but many fall for the one who can afford than one who sacrifice.
( principle of sacrifice)
love is not about being physically present, and emotionally unavailable. your presence should be felt like a wifi network signal. romance physically but remember to connect intellectually and emotionally.
( principle of presence)
if you hear your partner speak don’t listen to reply, listen to understand, be in your partner’s shoes not in your mind.
( principle of empathy)
“so you don’t trust me?” is a silly excuse to hide something, give me something to trust you. you don’t have to force it on me i have to gain it. trust is gained as much as respect is earned.
( principle of trust)
just a nugget for your thought.
i wouldn’t argue with slay queens who say being financially secure is more important than being in love. after all they are not meant for love but i am glad they know that love has less to do with being financially secure
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